Your life cannot be broken down into a list written by a stranger. Making decisions as an adult is tough (and those decisions could make your life better or worse), but they’re your decisions to make. Who you sleep with, where you move, and even how you trim your body hair - your choices and yours alone.
Please do not approach your life as something that requires list-reading. Approach it as something that you want to be wonderful and fulfilling and do your best to make it happen. Basically, just follow your arrow wherever it points. bobby finger: One Thing You Should Know About Being A Gay Man Before You Decide To Be One